I caught 1/2 of this film about the life of comedian Lenny Bruce. I had not heard of him until last night. I highly recommend it. I wanted to mention this part that I liked.
He said that the problem with many is this belief in a happy ending story.
what is vs what should be
He said we should be happy with what is and not reflect so much on what should be.
Anyhow, thought I'd share. If you get a chance, check out the film.